Simple understanding

somethings that are so simple; I know but yet so extraordinary.

People crave for perfection.

No; i want my husband/wife to be perfect or my child should get the 1st rank in academics as well as and in extracurriculars.

Lets understand this : " No 1 is complete.. No 1 is perfect..."

Its so important in life to know your -ves
so that u can appreciate others with their -ves


To understand and appreciate these differences;differences of opinion, thinking, styles, living
To know and love the person for whatever he/she is....

Only if u would really love a person for whoever or whatever he/she is...
Then and then only you can probably have heaven on earth..!

Man-age-ment

There have been various prevalent definitions on management; here's my own definition:

Man with Age(Experiences) learns management.
Experiencing with experimenting gives you an opportunity to build a point-of-view.

This point-of-view helps you to put forward the problems in a structured-systemic way.
It is not just spurts of channelised work but an intrinsic method which he/she follows owing to his experiences.This helps any manager to not intrude in Blind-spots.

This helps a better management with strategic and tactical experiential decision making.
Thus, Man with experience learns management.

Vote for Good

It was an afternoon with temperatures soaring head high. The temperatures weren't political
but Geo-climatic.I was traveling via the Ambedkar circle; Race course Baroda. There was some clout a band of reporters and cameramen were crowding the turning bottleneck. All were screaming with banners all around.

Vote for Balu Shukla, BJP. I saw the banners and thought yet another politician.

I came home and had a chat with my father who's a doctor regarding this upcoming election and why we still have the same corrupt politicians.He said it was not system's fault alone. Its ours.We are not politically inclined people.Rather we shunn politics as if its Dirty job and cleaning is not our responsibility.

If only we had some more politicians like Balu Shukla, he said. Bells started ringing in my forehead.He was praising his intellect, efficiency and willingness to work for the people's good.

I was not convinced by his statement and went for further investigations and found his ground approach a reality.He's been going deep into gutters to help choke out while being a mayor, promoted education at different levels,improved traffic tracking system, roped in investments in Baroda.Even today I saw on-paper balance of incomes provided by him and they were realistic.

There's lots that even I donot know.Just a small period of work in the grandiose history of Baroda and appreciable work.Let's not crib about the system being dirty and nasty; but see scrunitize the right candidate and vote for him/her.

Let's Vote for growth and development. Let's Vote for good.

Coming Home !

Looks the same; feels the same; its the same......but still we need to go back.
But still we feel its the best place in the world.When we are to find a place away from all the glitters and the shabby world. The only thing we think of is the home.....


Back from all the unpredictability to certainty.Certainty that some 1's waiting. Certainty of peace. That all are here for me; would love me adore me even if am back with or without any reason.
I'm happy to be at home again :)

Maid in India

Till 80's it was a scene that was prevalent in almost every other household in India; the brand "Made in India" was not a very respectable one, so also was the scenario for the maid.

They were also not among a very respectable lot. Many movies also portrayed this discerning inequality between the land-ladies/lords and the servile maids. Similarly many movies portrayed inequalities in the Foreign- Indian societies.

Since liberalization; things are changing. The rise of India as a respectable "Brand" has also lead Maids in India change their stand.It was in their hands to work for the "Maalik"; serving participants and their kids as per requirement. They also as normal customers started demanding. Thus made in india is largely dependent right now on Maids in India.

Add-Option

Adoption has always been an option to add a member along with your family.
We, in India have a clause that initially the child should be given a preference for inside the country suitors and later foreign nationals.The trend towards adoption depicts a clear reduction in adoption inside as well as to foreign nationals.

Y decrease in adoption trend ?

1. Increased expectations of the parties; leading to lower adoption ratios
2. Awareness about contraceptive cares and family planning; leading to lesser birth of babies ;thus reduced intakes in the baby care centres; leading to lesser adoption.

Mayawati's Maya.. !!

Obama became the head of the system in USA; a similar condition occurs in India with Mayawati planning to take a charge; then why is it creating vibes and feeling of non-acceptability in India ??

Specific reasons:

1. A person always wanting power is generally not easily accepted by the public
2. Discriminating on basis of Dalitism a single caste; in a country made of diverse religions,languages and castes.
3. Favouring regionalism
4. Inability to portray a stance of a global leader in an emerging economy like India
5. Ineffective communication in English
6. Willingness to portay grandiose picture of herself every now and then; Portraits and pictures: name everywhere : .e over-publicity

Obama though being of a smaller crowd is willing to work for the country as a whole and not for a particular class or colour of the people.Thus leading to respect and easy acceptance by all.

Mayawati's maya may offer a glow in some dalit castes but overall the upper and the middle class wont be willing to be blindfooled by her MAYA.